July 30, 2012

Happy Ending

Filed under: Christian living, Faith, God's Love — Tags: , , — yalandarose @ 4:40 pm

 I want to read, she wants to play is an incessant conflict between my daughter and I, not at the park or playground but over my laptop.  The laptop may as well be coin-operated because the minute I log on my time is fleeting.  I can usually buy more time by finding things for my daughter to do:  clean your room, take your bath, brush your teeth.

My daughter can buy more time by whining, demanding, and begging away my concentration, which is why I abruptly walked away from an essay I was reading before my patience and simultaneous computer time ran out.

She then wasted no time claiming her position in front of the monitor.

However, instead of moving the cursor up to her favorite game site, she scrolled down.

For a tot not yet in Kindergarten, I wondered how long the thousands of foreign words would hold her interest as she continued to scroll.

I watched as she purposefully stared at the screen as if she was looking for something substantial to take away from the article – other than my time.

She was still scrolling.

She stopped intermittently during her literary stroll of the essay to enjoy the view of a handful of clip art.

She then reached the end of her stroll and found whatever it was she was looking for- not at the end of the essay but at the very bottom of the webpage.

A smiley face.

Although the purpose of her search wasn’t clear to me, and I’m sure it wasn’t clear to her either, she kept going. Though at times she paused to enjoy the view, she found what she was looking for – a happy ending.

July 29, 2012

Let the Child Preach

Filed under: Christianity — Tags: , , — yalandarose @ 3:53 am

OK, I know I told all of you to “Get Outta Here” on my last post, but hopefully some of you decided to stick around.  An earlier post, Her Two Cents was reblogged here:


Anything to spread God’s Word is great news to me!

July 28, 2012

Get Outta Here!

Filed under: Christianity — Tags: , , — yalandarose @ 5:56 am

Can you imagine reading the newspaper and coming across an opinion article written just about you?  That’s how i felt on July 22, I was surfing the WordPress Reader and realized I was reading a post about me!  My blog specifically and how inspiring it was to fellow blogger:


Could you also imagine a few days later receiving thanks from another fellow blogger that has inspired you for inspiring him?  Not in my wildest dreams until July 26 when  Juan Castillo nominated my blog for the Very Inspiring Blog Award (above).

This is the first award I’ve received where I have to give an acceptance speech by telling 7 facts about myself.  (I didn’t have to rent a formal gown for this one:) Also, reward others who will be sharing the stage with me below.

My blog has been making all kinds of headlines this week.  My week wasn’t so shabby either:)
















I adapted my responses from Juan’s to illustrate how different we are and yet the same.  My answers are next to his in parenthesis

  1. I can move my adam’s apple from side to side (I like Gala apples)
  2. I LOVE to sing.  In fact, one of my dreams was and kind of still is to become a contemporary Christian artist (I love to think I can sing)
  3. My favorite season is Spring…hands down with no comparison (my fave too)
  4. I dont like Ice cream (I’m lactose-intolerant)
  5. Im a guy who like the movie “the notebook” (never watched it)
  6. Im a total tree hugger….totally. (I like hugs period)
  7. I much rather go to a park than watch a movie. (I would much rather play board games)

July 26, 2012

Dry Your Eyes

Filed under: Christianity — Tags: , , — yalandarose @ 9:49 pm

“Crying isn’t going to make me do it any faster!”

Is what my daughter hears between sobs when her request elevates to demands in a few hot seconds.

Considering that this is a regular occurrence, I marvel that she is still not aware that I fully intend to fulfill her original request before she hypes into diva-mode.

Now, I have to stop to teach her a 4-part lesson in patience.

  1. Wipe your face
  2. Take a deep breath
  3. Ask politely.
  4. Say thank-you.

Immediately, I instruct my daughter to stop crying because I want her full attention.

If necessary, I ask her to take a deep breath to organize her thoughts. I then instruct her to phrase her request into a question. And before she runs off with her request fulfilled and no memory of this event ever occurring, I remind her to say thank you.

I learned how childish I was acting  as I was sobbing about another day and no job offer.  I have been praying for nearly 2 years for a better job, and I cranked into diva mode today.

Then I realized, crying isn’t going to make my Father Answer my prayers any faster. So I wiped my face, took a deep breath, continue to ask Him nicely remembering His Sovereignty, and when He does respond, I will thank Him -again.

I Hate Traffic

Filed under: children — Tags: , , — yalandarose @ 2:03 am



Car stuck in rush-hour traffic?

A child is suffering in human trafficking.




July 25, 2012

Don’t Cry

Filed under: Christianity — Tags: , , , — yalandarose @ 11:45 pm

I want to cry because:

I’m lonely – so is the girl who lost her parents
I’m scared – so is the child diagnosed with cancer
I’m hurt – so is the boy who is abused and neglected
I’m unemployed – so is the husband facing eviction
I’m angry – so is the victim of a heinous crime
I’m anxious – so is the family of a missing child
I’m depressed – so is the sibling of a drug addict
I’m hopeless – so is a victim of human-trafficking
I’m saving my tears – so I can save someone else

July 24, 2012

Her Two Cents

Filed under: Christianity — Tags: , , , , , — yalandarose @ 1:52 pm

It was that time in church again- the part of the service where we are expected to give after hopefully getting something out of the sermon.

“Give what you have purposed in your heart to give,” reminded the deacon in his weekly recital of 2 Corinthians 9:7.

Today, after another weekly ritual of paying bills, I made a purpose to give $2.

As the collection plate came around, I purposefully put my $2 into it.

However, God Had another purpose.  After the sermon, He Continued To Teach me a lesson about giving.

Immediately after I put in my two bucks, my pre-schooler decided to add her two cents, by dipping her hand into my still open purse. She pulled out the first bill she saw out of her sudden “handbag,” and put it into the collection plate as well.

She looked at me happy that she was able to participate in the service, and proud that she remembered to share.

I looked at the collection plate resisting the urge to swipe it back.

That is because the first bill she saw was a $20 bill – ten times more than my original purpose.

My pre-schooler didn’t yet know the difference between monetary denominations, but regardless of my religious denomination, I was still expected to give.

I am aware of the controversy on the church’s position and teachings on giving and its accusations of “fleecing the sheep.”

Despite the arguments for and against, you can’t argue with God’s Word.

`And to everyone who is asking of thee, be giving; and from him who is taking away thy goods, be not asking again’ Luke 6:30.

So glad I didn’t dip my hand back into the collection plate.

We worship a God Who Tells us to give to even our enemies to fulfill God’s True Purpose.

`Give, and it shall be given to you; good measure, pressed, and shaken, and running over, they shall give into your bosom; for with that measure with which ye measure, it shall be measured to you again.’ Luke 6:38

I left church with my purse a little lighter, but my heart a lot fuller, because I was happy and proud too.

For giving.

Filed under: Christianity, Faith, God's Love — Tags: , , , , , — yalandarose @ 8:09 am

As a parent, there are a lot of things I teach my daughter about life.  As a child, there are a lot of things she teaches me about love.

I have to own up to some of my wrongs against her:

  • false accusation (I was just sure she made another mess)
  • losing my temper and/or patience (don’t worry, I always find it)
  • inflicting pain (I honestly didn’t see her when I turned around)

When I consider what I owe my daughter for my wrongs, all I can do is apologize.

Her response?  “That’s OK mommy, I just love you.” (I could go on and on about how wonderful of a mom she says I am, but I guess it’s unnecessary to mention it here:)

Lesson learned? My daughter has forgiven my debts as God Has Forgiven mine.

Thankfully, God Loves us both too.

For the Love of God, Save His Trees!

Filed under: Christianity — Tags: , , , — yalandarose @ 5:58 am

God‘s Word is printed on paper, but His Love should be written on our hearts. So put down those religious tracts and start sharing His Love from your heart. Use the tree for another one of God’s Intended Purposes, rest and relaxation (a picnic would be nice) with your newfound brother or sister in Christ.

July 23, 2012


Filed under: Christianity, Faith — Tags: , , , — yalandarose @ 7:04 pm

When someone tells you that he doesn’t believe in God, is it because he didn’t see God in you?

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